Today my definition would be this.
- Over time, coming to terms with the reality, not just mentally but from that deep place---my center.
- So first you have to recognize that your emotions (feelings) are a reaction.
- Then you have to admit that reality is not what you thought it was.
- You need to shift your processes- what you believe, how you think, the language of your self-talk.this shift has to filter up and down and through you, over and over.
One of my recent "realizations" was that waiting for someone to come to their senses can't be willed into existence and it should never become a Way....waste of life.